Building a relationship with yourself and your own life.
With who you are.
With what is happening in your life.
With the problems that keep returning.
With what you cannot change.
And ultimately, with other people.
We often spend enormous amounts of energy trying to solve, change or get rid of what we do not want.
The same conflict.
The same exhaustion.
The same relationship pattern.
The same symptom.
The same difficult decision.
Phenomenological work offers a space to meet what is there and build a different relationship with it.
What are phenomenological constellations?
Some problems cannot be solved from the same place where they were created.
Constellations allow us to step outside our usual perspective and encounter a situation differently.
Instead of only talking about it, we bring it into the space. We may work with representatives, objects, positions, movement or simple observation.
They can be done individually or in a group.
Sometimes what changes is the situation itself. Sometimes our relationship with it changes.
And sometimes that is enough for something new to become possible.
Family matters. Your own life matters too.
I started with family & systemic constellations. Over time, I realised that the phenomenological perspective describes my work more precisely.
Our parents and ancestors matter. Our history is part of us.
But we are also here to live our own life.
As Bert Hellinger said:
“The history has the right to stay in the past.”
My work therefore focuses on the here and now, adulthood and our relationship with the life we actually have.
Topics people bring
- relationships and family
- recurring problems or patterns
- important decisions and life transitions
- work, career and direction
- burnout and chronic pressure
- leadership and team conflicts
- feeling stuck despite effort
My approach
I am less interested in helping people become a better version of themselves.
I am more interested in helping them build a more honest relationship with reality.
With the past that has already happened.
With ourselves as we are today.
With other people as they are.
With problems we may not be able to simply remove.
And with the life that is unfolding in front of us.
For me, this is where movement often begins:
when we stop treating life as a problem to solve and start building a relationship with it.
First conversation
You do not need to know what needs to change.
You can simply bring what is asking for your attention right now.
We can start in an office, during a walk through Ljubljana, or on a noisy terrace by the river with decent coffee or a glass of pelinkovec.
